Modern parents do not allow their children to become independent (Ñî÷èíåíèÿ ÅÃÝ àíãëèéñêèé ÿçûê)

Some people think kids are raised not in a right way nowadays. They say, constant control and care makes children dependant to their parents. Nevertheless, others don’t think so.

To begin with, due to great technological development, every child can easily contact with their parents by using his phone and the Internet. Now parents can control their kids by using special apps, so they always know where his son or daughter is and what he or she is doing. If a child knows that he is watched, he can’t grow up being independent. What is more, modern parents often help their children with their homework. It is not bad if they do it not on daily basis but sometimes, parents do all the work for their kids, and these actions develop dependence.

However, some people think children are brought up developing their self-confidence.

In fact, kids have to make life-changing decisions themselves when they are still teenagers. They have to choose their future career and nobody can do it instead of them. Moreover, some years ago it wasn’t possible because parents had to pay for lessons, drive their kids to study clubs. Now you can learn new things for free without going out, which makes you independent from your parents. Studying online, students take responsibility for their education and become self-motivated and self-reliant.

Personally, I don’t think modern kids are too dependent. They make so more difficult decisions without others’ help than never before.

Ïåðåâîä

Íåêîòîðûå ëþäè äóìàþò, ÷òî äåòè âîñïèòûâàþòñÿ íå â ïðàâèëüíîì íàïðàâëåíèè â íàñòîÿùåå âðåìÿ. Ãîâîðÿò, ïîñòîÿííûé êîíòðîëü è çàáîòà äåëàþò äåòåé çàâèñèìûìè îò ñâîèõ ðîäèòåëåé. Òåì íå ìåíåå, äðóãèå òàê íå äóìàþò.

Íà÷íåì ñ òîãî, ÷òî áëàãîäàðÿ áîëüøîìó òåõíîëîãè÷åñêîìó ðàçâèòèþ, êàæäûé ðåáåíîê ìîæåò ëåãêî ñâÿçàòüñÿ ñî ñâîèìè ðîäèòåëÿìè, èñïîëüçóÿ ñâîé òåëåôîí è èíòåðíåò. Òåïåðü ðîäèòåëè ìîãóò êîíòðîëèðîâàòü ñâîèõ äåòåé ñ ïîìîùüþ ñïåöèàëüíûõ ïðèëîæåíèé, òàê ÷òî îíè âñåãäà çíàþò, ãäå åãî ñûí èëè äî÷ü è ÷òî îí èëè îíà äåëàåò. Åñëè ðåáåíîê çíàåò, ÷òî çà íèì íàáëþäàþò, îí íå ìîæåò âûðàñòè íåçàâèñèìûì. Áîëåå òîãî, ñîâðåìåííûå ðîäèòåëè ÷àñòî ïîìîãàþò ñâîèì äåòÿì ñ äîìàøíèìè çàäàíèÿìè. Ýòî íå ïëîõî, åñëè îíè äåëàþò ýòî íå åæåäíåâíî, à èíîãäà, ðîäèòåëè äåëàþò âñþ ðàáîòó äëÿ ñâîèõ äåòåé, è ýòè äåéñòâèÿ ðàçâèâàþò çàâèñèìîñòü.

Òåì íå ìåíåå, íåêîòîðûå ëþäè äóìàþò, ÷òî äåòè âîñïèòûâàþòñÿ, ðàçâèâàÿ ñâîþ óâåðåííîñòü â ñåáå. Íà ñàìîì äåëå, äåòè äîëæíû ñàìè ïðèíèìàòü æèçíåííî âàæíûå ðåøåíèÿ, êîãäà îíè åùå ïîäðîñòêè. Îíè äîëæíû âûáðàòü ñâîþ áóäóùóþ êàðüåðó, è íèêòî íå ìîæåò ñäåëàòü ýòî âìåñòî íèõ. Áîëåå òîãî, íåñêîëüêî ëåò íàçàä ýòî áûëî íåâîçìîæíî, ïîòîìó ÷òî ðîäèòåëè äîëæíû áûëè ïëàòèòü çà óðîêè, âîäèòü ñâîèõ äåòåé â ó÷åáíûå êëóáû. Òåïåðü âû ìîæåòå óçíàòü íîâûå âåùè áåñïëàòíî, íå âûõîäÿ, ÷òî äåëàåò âàñ íåçàâèñèìûìè îò âàøèõ ðîäèòåëåé. Èçó÷àÿ îíëàéí, ñòóäåíòû áåðóò íà ñåáÿ îòâåòñòâåííîñòü çà ñâîå îáðàçîâàíèå è ñòàíîâÿòñÿ ñàìîìîòèâèðîâàííûìè è ñàìîñòîÿòåëüíûìè.

Ëè÷íî ÿ íå äóìàþ, ÷òî ñîâðåìåííûå äåòè ñëèøêîì çàâèñèìû. Îíè ïðèíèìàþò òàêèå ñëîæíûå ðåøåíèÿ áåç ïîìîùè äðóãèõ, êàê íèêîãäà ðàíüøå.